Session Start: Wed Sep 19 19:53:56 2001 *** Now talking in #wen *** Topic is 'Welcome To The Women's Erotica Network! Wednesday Chat - 9PM Eastern Time ' *** Set by wenbot on Wed Sep 19 11:02:53 -wenbot- Welcome To The Women's Erotica Network > Hi, Sassy. hi Passion_ :) > oops > lol *** Passion_ is now known as Sandra > :-) lol didnt recognize u hehe > es ok. :-) > Just set up mIRC on my new computer. tryin to finish a few things for a customer be in in a bit ahh ok hehe > Now if I can just remember how to get ops. LOL > How's your biz going? lol that would help hehe --- busy > Good... I'm glad people are busy. thx hon it feels good too :) we just released a 61,000 word novel too :) > Really? > Tell me about it. yep :) chazz is comin in i really want to finish this piece up b4 the chat *** Chazz has joined #wen ok i am here what u need from me hun > Hi, Chazz hi baby http://www.adultwriters.com/modules.php?op=modload&name=NS-Store&file=index lol hes a big cuddly teddy bear hehe > <-- pouting... needs a teddy bear. i need to put up a redirct thats too big i am a cute skinny good look one to lol > Only $50 for the novel? uh huh ;) > Kewl. we're tryin to be walmart not kaufmanns LOL > I'm starting a large AVS (adult verifier) for women and wanted to serialize a novel. :-) cool :) > Kaufmann? we got a lot more stuff comin ummmm how bout jc penny or somethin richy like that hehe just tired of seein ppl takin advantage of the writers & the webmasters too so our prices are low ;) > Great. > I'll buy any novels you come up with. in the end we'll make up for it cool i'll tell our writer who does them that u want novels ;) > Or even novellas.. something that has cliff-hangers - to keep the members wanting to renew to see what happens. :-) * RevSassy-AdultWriters was thinkin of writing a novella but doesnt have the time yet HEHE > Well, I could do my own writing. :-) Just don't have the time. i hear ya - thats y i got other writers hehe i m workin on some story packs for various fetishes right now - tryin to boost our content > I'm glad to see that there are good groups of writers showing up. ya it really does help ... stories were gettin sooo stale LOL http://www.adultwriters.com/store.php > would love to see mature, bbw, and, of course, for women type stories. thats better hu that will get them to the stories > Much better, Chazz. got mature & bbw comin - bbw should be out by end of next week if all goes well :) had to fixit in my bot i try to make most of my writing stuff that women & men will both enjoy ;) > Sassy, do you have an update newsletter? want if she can be on to servers have to ask willyb lol yep :) if u sign up for our site u get updated hehe Sandra u know y can come hang with us in are chat room some time > I'll have to check... I thought I did. course, as messed up as things have been lately, I might have. we do talk in there too lol > Where's your chatroom? lol i hear ya host: chatnet.sextracker.com port:6667 room: #CustomErotica4u *** TiBo has joined #wen > Kewl. > Hi, TiBo... hugs, hon. Hi Sandra. there always some one in there heyas TiBo :) TiBo how u doing guy Hi Sassy. Doing alright. > Chazz, thanks. I will drop in. * Chazz runs over and gives TiBo a bear hug Um. Thanks Chazz buddy. > lol no prob dude we know u need us now and we are here So how have you folx been since Chicago? Hadn't seen you around for a while then allovasudden you're back all over the place. Where are the others? well i got sassy prego and we lost jazzykats but we have our new content site i set up for RevSassy-AdultWriters Adultwriters.com That's what I mean. That site is all over everywhere now. we could use your help there if u want to hang TiBo the grounp i got togeather is realy cool and layed back But you guys disappeared for quite some time. Surely it couldn't have taken THAT long to get Sassy preagnant. > lol > They just enjoyed it so much. :) i have slow hands we had some thing to fix up u seen how bad sassy was she much better and deal a lot better with the meds she is on * TiBo is confused. Sassy was bad... and you had to fix her? Ah. I see. ok u miss most of it let see sassy didn't let me out of hear site and got a little violent with me and fliped out Yikes. she better now shit she didn't let me play too much pool then but she deal a ton better now *** susanna has joined #wen Well that's good. > Hugs, Sus. made it did I miss anything ? Hi Susanna dear. that sweet little lady u meet TiBo lol > Was just about to send TiBo out after you, Sus. *** Tammie has joined #wen > Hi, Tammie. *hugs* hi all :) ;o) i have a sick baby (computer) Hi Tammie. hi tammie message me on icq hon > Sus, sorry. Wish I could send my son up to help you. ok the room starting to fill nomore about that lol hi Sandra hi Tammie Okay then Chazz. brb > Well, since we have a few people here... what we wanted to discuss was questions to ask on a survey. I rewrote my message board script, so this week I have been converting messages from the old script format to the new script format by hand. (only 150 messages to go *groan*) > TiBo, hope it's all working for you. survey question a) How long would oral sex last ideally? 8 hours? Week? Year? > brb pit stop > lol > I'm thinking of questions more on the lines of: Have you ever joined a paysite designed specifically for women? > (btw, met a guy online who swears he did oral for six hours once. I'm debating if I should buy him a train ticket.) LOL b) A man's responsability is? Take care of me sexually? Run the dishwasher? Fix things when they break? Whatever his woman is in the mood to have him do? > lol TiBo. :-) > I was kinda hoping for this to help us with marketing. :-) I did oral sex for two hours or more a few times. I would like to try for 6 now that I sex my own hours. > sex your own hours? > lol Um... Did I say sex. Uh.... no.. I said set. Really! > Yeah, right.... uh huh. Bad keyboard gremlins! Bad! Shoo! Away with you! bye the ticket sandra ;o) > LOL Sus. > Might have to. :-) LOLtibo I read what you typed 4 times then thought Tibo said sex LOL c) The perfect online site would? Be inexpensive? Update regularly? Have a tongue that comes out of the screen (a super long one)? > LOL I have a crased HD crashed 356.00 for a new one like I needed that LOL > I think we need I TiBo tee-shirts. I have a crass HD myself. ;) I think so too Sandra ;o) *** TiBo has quit IRC (Connection reset by peer) ;o) > Awwwwwww > We lost him. > Sus, how's your biz going? too mushy ;o) > lol my biz is picking up > He loved it. > Good. only thing is the mail is ummm really very slow I have not had any money in two weeks about 2000.00 overdue > I got three signups for Women's Porno today... haven't have that in weeks. > ouch. its the WTC thing.. mail is just not crossing the border or flying in planes *** TiBo has joined #wen > I'm sure that's going to be one of the unintended consequences - the delay in mail. Darned Cable modem! > wb TiBo. yes for sure > Sus, is it monies from sponsors? its hard when you work and dont get paid for a month though ;o) and two jobs and my pay site actually that figure does not include sponsor money I dont really track that I dont have time > Maybe you can contact your sponsors and get them to wire the money. but I do have bills LOL AND they are so kind as to let me know when I owe them more then I should LOL > It's a whole new world we're dealing with. > Sus, maybe they will be understanding. yeah going to call em as well I am doing a server move > Good idea. so paying for two servers at once it always rains > ouch > Who are you moving to? conepuppy group of us got a volumn rate > You couldn't have picked a better one. :-) saved me 200 us on my dedicated d) The best adult stories contain? A sensative romantic male lead? A beastial ravishing brute? A perfect blend of both (who also rides a unicorn and talks to leprechauns)? > LOL LOL tibo did you take up smokin? > Or looks like Vincent, TiBo. vincent? > Beauty and the Beast. > tv series. No. I remain a non-smoker. ahhhh yeah me too... never understood that smoking thing Conpuppy is cool. I'm almost finished moving all my adult sites to there. > I smoked cigs when I was in college.... quite in my 20s when I got heart palpatations. And almost finished moving all my non adult sites to nat-net. > TiBo, do you have any non adult that are making any money? whooahhh non adult? whats that LOL > I'm trying to find something outside of adult to put effort into. Yeah. My non adult web design site. > Don't do design, so that doesn't work. My software site will make money also I betcha by golly wow. why nat net? I wanted to see if one of those $195 servers on NatNet was worthwhile. So far it's been fine. > brb e) Sean Connery, topless in a dusty pair of cowboyboots? No question, just wanted to say that. topless? sorry I want bottomless too ;o) > back... had to talk to my son for a bit. f) The thing that would make me join a paysite the fastest is? A free trial? The promise of some really attractive men inside? Some content that was really worthwhile viewing? Sending someone over to do the laundry and the housework while I sit around and surf the site? I like that one!!! > lol whats wrong with humour? Humour? Where? LOL how much u want to bet most ppl choose: Sending someone over to do the laundry and the housework while I sit around and surf the site? LOL I was thinking that we would have to put all the humour into one question so as not to bias the other questions lol sorry They very well might. very true susanna *** TiBo has quit IRC (Connection reset by peer) Sandra... what do you think about each of us writing our own questions each month\ IE Tibo first month me second you third etc we review with the group everyone has to agree that the questions are worth while and not offensive for their site and or give suggestions for change > I suppose that would have some worth. We would get a wide range of questions and even if questions were similar it might evoke different responses. tammie? would you say that is going to give the results we want? might also take care of the problem of some ppls sites not bein fit for certain questions LOL we could almost weed out bad questions that way narrow down the survey questions most often answered or survey answered the most stays there full time what ever how many questions per survey? *** TiBo has joined #wen > I say no more than ten. I think shorter i was thinkin 5 or 10 This bastard thing disconnects me and doesn't tell me. that sux So I'll just be sitting there looking like an idiot waiting for messages. (not that there's anything unusual about that). > Five or seven would be good. Or five with two that can have follow ups. uh huh :) . a sudden hush fills the room... g) I am turned off by sites where? The men look too effeminate? The men look to macho? The men look to young and little? The men praise Satan in a darkened room over the carcass of a small woodland creature? > TiBo, that's ok except for the last part. LOL You don't like the last part?????? > No. :) too young and little needs reworded IMHO But...But...Some women might genuinely get turned off by that. lmfao TiBo * Sandra sighs deeply. whats wrong Sandra? :) (I amuse myself, I guess that's all that's important) > <-- sighing at TiBo. :-) heh... what about leading questions... like here is the question... would you like to answer more on this? you ahve the cchance to make a real difference to the porn for women on the net...then lead them off to the big survey... otherwise they get to have the thank you page and the chance at the prize yep thats true TiBo (as long as one person is laughing, even if it's me) > just pulling your leg, TiBo. lol ok Sandra he'll be fine soon as we spanxxx him hehe > lol susanna: good point :) so you can pop up one question and two links in a small pop up Do you still need a prize? I can see what my schedule is like. and off a link if you want > lol TiBo. * susanna will fill out that darn survey 1000 times to win Tibo ;o) ya if u make women feel important then theyre more likely to help out :) yes and we want to know what they are thinking so tell em straight up WE NEED YOU PLUS you get a prize LOL free shoe shopping <--- The diety's gift to the opposite sex on his distant planet of origin. > I'll get this chat listed on the website, ask others to read it, and we can hash it out in a thread on WEN > Planet of Origin? tibo is having an identity crisis lmao i always knew there was somethin unique about him hehe can lee help us with this? we need it to be submittable right? like a real form? > It was either Lee or cj who pointed me to a script to use for this. would be nice to be a smallish pop up.. no navigation... it closes when you click one of two links... off to the bigger survey (if they click thru they will complete the survey) or off to the prize > Good idea. Will have to see if it works with the program we use. what is the prize - i mean we cant really give away TiBo LOL > I think we were going to use gift certificates. > Easier to handle than trying to send merchandise. somethin cheap hopefully well I can only give a pass to csex at this time... but there used to be something called fozz or fooz its online gift certificates but soon I woudl like to donate a love basket or something like that I think cj wants to donate something from her new store kewlies - so this is a grand prize right ... not every1 who fills out the survey wins right LOL > Yep, or we could work it out with Todd who might be able to do a gift certificate for us. no we thought one per month yeah we would talk to them about free advertising ok susanna even thats cool forgot about that we could certainly get it free just link off to who ever donates with a nice 1/2 page advert > true *** geejay has joined #wen *** TiBo has quit IRC (Connection reset by peer) hi geejay hiya geejay :) LOL @ tibo > Hugs, geejay... I was just going to mention your name. LOL hi everyone > geejay and I could offer passes to our Ultra sites... once I get mine done. LOL there are some incredible sex gift basket sites on the net... Oceania has been reviewing them all in vintage... we both write there > geejay, we're discussing the prizes to be offered for women who answer our mutual survey. *** Tammie is now known as TammieAFK sure...if that's considered a prize...:) *** TiBo has joined #wen > Vintage? D'Oh! grammacash has vintage ezine o so its emailed out? LOL I do a toy review and the unusual side of sex on the net > lol h) The perfect sex toy is? Long and thick? Nimble and Quick? Quiet and discrete? TiBo? no its a plug in > Do you think there's any appeal to women with Vintage? kewlies ... she need more writers susanna? LOL its mature Sandra... and ... no LOL hehehehe had to ask :) I dunno not really sure > Okee. maybe Sassy > Well, cj will have Purvette out soon. . I can ask when I get the opportunity well if u hear let me know ;) pls :) * RevSassy-AdultWriters could use more work LOL ;) ususally good to have an angle so to speak... make them an offer of something they dont already have in their ezine they also put the columns in wife watch and black lovin... two other ezines plugins they do cool ... where can a person view their plugin LOL? . well go to grammacash.com I think there is something about them there k:) I am not authorized to give you the back door and usually can ask the editor but he is out of town till monday > I would think a sex story plug-in would be popular. i know ;) just tryin to figure out whats in there whats not hehe yup I agree sandra whenever u get a chance susanna ty :) there is some though yeah I hear ya Sassy heh did you have a baby yet? not yet susanna LOL sure wish she'd come out tho hehe * RevSassy-AdultWriters is thinkin of doin a story plug in eventually ;) soon? do it for avs maybe . yes your still here tibo ;o) nov 2nd I have no way knowing anymore. u need a better mirc TiBo Never used to happen on dialup. Just happens on cablemodem weird dsl or cable? cable I think Dokk's server hangs up on me if I don't say nothing with the cablemodem. > TiBo, that might be. some servers are set to kick a connection if it's not active for a certain period of time. weird Then AFTER I type a new message it tells me I've been kicked. It doesn't tell me I'm kicked as it's happening. bummer :( So I could have been kicked five minutes beforehand and just sitting there like a dumbass. i havent noticed the time out thing-a-ma-jig tho LOL bad ol servers can't do that to our Tibo! not that it aint possible hehe we'll have to kick their butts geejay LOL So next time it says TiBo has been disconnected by peer, that's your cue to signal you have a few minutes to talk about me behind my back. coool thx for the warning TiBo LOL j/k we always do ;o) ppppssssppppssssppppsssstibo pppsssppppsssppppsssstibo lmao lol > lol sandra you didnt like the puke smilie? puke smile = oxymoron LOL > Sus, no, I didn't. I want to know who made that word oxymoron . i dont know but i sure do love it hehe I thought it was funny ;o) not to be used meanly > I realize I've been in a pissy mood. I'm sorry, just been fighting a lot of depression lately. * RevSassy-AdultWriters hugs Sandra... ur not alone :) > ty you're allowed to be pissy as you want. we love you anyway. *big hug* I been sad too yvw * TiBo jumps up on the table with muddy feet and licks Sandra on the face alot of stress but Tibo is sure cheering me up ;o) > geejay, thank you, hon. :) aint he so cute LOL he is so soft and fuzzy > LOL TiBo... yuck. :-) ya theres a lot in the world & add that to whatever is goin on in your personal life cute lil puppy dog hehe he keeps running out the room/door though > It seemed like so much more happened during that week. I didn't know if I could handle anymore emotion. *** Druid has joined #wen > Well, if he'd keep talking, he wouldn't leave.lol > Hi, Druid. hi uih i hear u Sandra ... last week dragged on 4EVER :( Good point. hi Druid :) Sandra...last tuesday I got a mail about two ladies I knew and respected dieing of cancer *** TammieAFK is now known as Tammie things like that happen all the time in your life but you really notice them when your down dam then top it w/ the world news :( * RevSassy-AdultWriters hugs susanna > Sus, it's almost like the universe figured as long as we were on edge, might as well bring out everything at one time. yup now... I get a hd crash too ;o) but I have angels I can relate Sandra :( my daughter was upset yesterday about death and she was saying things that made me cry *** Tammie has quit IRC (Ping Timeout) like she wanted to die with me and be burried beside me etc I stopped what I was doing > Oh. :( and I sat with her for about 4 hours and just held her it was good for me > I spent a lot of time with my son this week. to realize my own priorities I think I'm gonna bow outta here about now. > Exactly. sorry tibo > TiBo, sorry, sweetheart... we don't mean to stir things up for you. you are also having troubles heh sweets? you seem in such a great mood I like that. My mood is okay today. *** TammieAFK has joined #wen S'way I'm gonna skip out while it still is. > TiBo, you helped cheer me up. :-) *** TammieAFK is now known as Tammie > Luv ya, TiBo. *** TiBo has quit IRC (Connection reset by peer) damn ooopps :( > These are the times I wish we were all sitting around in a room filled with pillows and candles and could hold each other and laugh and cry. i hear ya....but this brings us together from all over the world that's pretty special > I agree completely. lol yep i hear ya Sandra ... ive been down thinkin bout all the changes life is takin & me havin a baby soon - hormones are funky things LOL I am glad we have each other too > I loved the thread we had going for awhile where we shared so much about ourselves. * RevSassy-AdultWriters missed that Sandra > Sassy, will be praying for you and your baby. thx hon - just last week changed things for all of us & this is such an uncertain time for a kid to be born into > It's still there, Sassy. No posts are deleted... well, the spam is and I did take over that smiley Lee posted. LOL lol > <-- Moving to Idaho. > Going to have about 20 acres.... might have to put up a few guests houses. :-) thats where we plan on movin too Sandra are you going? Chazz's bro is out there > Yep, probably in the spring of '03 wow you plan ahead ;o) > falcon is looking for some land for me... and for him... next door. > I need to get my health in better shape and make sure my finances are in better shape as well. i just saw a funny blip on cnn. search engnes report "sex" dropped off top 10 searches in the last week or so > Going to see how cheap I can live. LOL lol Sandra I can teach you about that sandra ;o) well..that's the cool thing about this biz...you can do it anywhere i'd believe it geejay LOL > geejay, I'm not surprised. But what does surprise me is people searching for "cnn" > Sus, kewl. :-) my dad still doesn't know who urls work...he thinks you have to use the search engine lol newbies to the internet hehe > :) i actually expected a sharper decline in income due to the crisis, but it's been surprisingly even ppl still need an escape: entertainment > I'm suffering.... but then I didn't do much last week. > But, things are coming back. i'm behind too... been doin family stuff > Gotta get to work on my Ultra site. gonna start a new link list here soon :) > My last Gold was a great hit. Got 7 signups from the link list. i haven't done a lick of work...just can't get into it...:( cool Sandra what niche, Sandra? > geejay, I've been forcing myself to work this week. > Mature women. you have such discipline...I'm a lazy cow...:( I love that mature women is such a great niche > http://www.mature-sexy-women-pics.com/gold.html maybe she'll discipline the 2 of us geejay LOL i do well with BBW and hairy women too > I'm working on some feeder sites for the Mature site. lol...i need it! * RevSassy-AdultWriters is almost done w/ a bbw story pack - mature will be next ;) > Can't wait for those story packs. me too geejay LOL excellent thx Sandra ;) hairy? webmaster anonymous support group i'll keep u gals (& guys) updated > lol as opposed to shave the men love it LOL do they? any1 runnin bdsm sites ??? i just get amateur gals with a little fuzz on the thatch...easy to get SE traffic maybe why thatch? was gonna simply say that we now have a 61,000 word bdsm novel for sale for $50 muff...pussy...mound...whatever LOL LOL novel? yep :) wow! could it be broken up into installments? > My son is getting into the biz. Just registered NakedChicago.com for him. He and a buddy are going to start getting gals to pose for them. LOL the novel is in 18 chapters - looks just like a book thx to Chazz's wonderful html skills ;) > Sus, that's what I'm going to do on my Ultra site - put up a new chapter each week. just u need to add pics hehe Hahaha...you sound like a groovy mom who me a webmaster ohh ya i do that lol hi all lol Chazz > geejay, he gets such a kick out of telling his friends what I do. But you have to remember, he's 27 LOL lo, the sleeper hath awakened yep Sandra thatll take u ummm 5 months to run the whole thing LOL by then i should be able to get u another 1 hehe i loved that movie geejay yep geejay its alive LOL > Sassy, kewl. i bet he gets a kick! Hell i still get a kick outta telling people ;) i am just sick tonight sorry to hear that chazz...feel better it helps if RevSassy-AdultWriters give the url hu Sandra http://www.adultwriters.com/store > lol it help if i give the right one http://www.adultwriters.com/store.php > It does, Chazz. LOL lol doin so well around here 2nite hehe sorry i had to run off to go p :p > Oh, back to my son for a bit. He said the they would have no problem shooting guys... so I may have someone to do some content for me. :-) woohooohooo :)